What? The Rodeny King beating and subsequent riots, OJ Simpson murdering 2 people, Columbine, the first time the WTC was bombed, 1500 people died near Mecca, and like 3 civil wars in Africa
I don't believe OP is afraid of getting fired over their orientation. To me, it just seems like they prefer to keep their personal life and work life separate without sacrificing any morals
Ok. Trans for me is a different subject. You are absolutely right. You have a harder time blending in than non-trans. However, I still believe that OP is not meaning "don't say gay". They're saying it's no one's business. Which does apply to you. However that's an uphill battle for you unfortunately. Still don't believe there's anything wrong with you telling someone in the workplace to mind their own business
This seems pretty volatile
(Also I'm responding this while listening to "She Blinded Me With Science)