You're less damned if you don't than if you do. I say let Bigots and their apologists be mad, defending Kolanki who was absolutely justifiably banned from lemmy.blahaj.zone screams apologia to me.
In order to keep a safe space safe, one has to be okay with pissing people off, and the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the mods who sympathize with a person playing the victim when he's told allyship must be earned.
Try and reformulate your sentences to circumvent the filter. Somehing like this can help, replaces the words with lookalike characters. Zalgo might also break it.
No recognition for our fellow enbies. Oh yeah and GNC people as well. May seem silly to criticize them for that until you realize how long the Pokemon company has held out on Nonbinary recognition.
I don't think it's nearly as easy to become a perfect cute femboy, as it is to transition. I might be wrong but it's something you really need to get lucky with.
It's definitely more complicated than cis or trans being a binary, I should know since I'm Isogender, neither cis nor trans.
Not sure if gender modality is a spectrum though.
It's also a gamble because you might get a painless one but also could get one that is insanely painful. Those odds aren't clearly defined and quantified like the button's odds.
Nonbinary identities kinda break the idea of straight or gay since straightness or gayness are depended on the gender of the person, so when that gender is outside of the binary it doesn't work right.
You're less damned if you don't than if you do. I say let Bigots and their apologists be mad, defending Kolanki who was absolutely justifiably banned from lemmy.blahaj.zone screams apologia to me.
In order to keep a safe space safe, one has to be okay with pissing people off, and the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the mods who sympathize with a person playing the victim when he's told allyship must be earned.