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  • late stage

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  • I feel like a lot more people would have to agree with elon, and elon to actually be capable of doing it, for your number 2. But methinks all of the ketamine, T, and trump's speed parties will kill the colonizer before that anyhow.

  • If you have diarrhea and you hold it in will your body reabsorb some of the water?

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  • Butt fuck your doctor?

  • Trump vows to stop ‘transgender lunacy' and make two genders official US policy

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  • Thank you for this reply, was about to spoil my entire Xmas until realizing you're totally right, we already in that particular boat.

  • Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?

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  • Really love this, me and mine already got a ways down this planning path, but there are some really great tips I hadn't considered. It also feels nice to know that my thoughts are shared by yet another.

  • Hey is Sharing Luigi’s Manifesto on Social Media Actually "Glorifying Violence"? Because Reddit Said So 😭

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  • I mean, he claims responsibility, confirmed the existing evidence, then states his motives which aren't hard to understand for even those out of the loop. I think the brevity and simple reasoning speak volumes louder than some maniacs scribblings found in a cabin. The fact that even those considered Semliterate would be able to grasp the bulk of his message was likely intentional.

    Its actually not shitty at all, presuming his purpose was to inspire a shift in public discourse around the topic.

    If he wanted it to be the centerpiece of a dramatic documentary miniseries, then yes, it was shitty.

  • Recommend some media to a long-term closet survivor?

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  • For me, there wasn't much available in the vein of live action media that I found to be affirming. I didn't care for RuPaul before hearing about his less than ideal thoughts of our community, so there isn't much.

    I would say though, there is so much trans-esq/directly trans storylines to be found among Anime of all genres. I also found the dark(er) than real life focus that is most media of today to be a real negative part of my content. Once I stopped consuming dark fictional content, combined with limiting my video-based news, I found that I had sooooo much more room to both examine/appreciate/dream about a positive future for myself, especially my tolerance to withstand dysphoria.

    One anime I really found myself relating to almost all of the characters in some aspect, including the very clearl gender-rebel or sorts, was Netflix's The Seven Deadly Sins (the show). If you like fun fantasy with the right amount of camp and silly tropes, Its a great watch.

  • Microsoft Recall screenshots credit cards and Social Security numbers, even with the "sensitive information" filter enabled

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  • I'n shocked, I tell you, absolutely shocked.

  • Great article, which may have a small reference to my related experience on the safety I've found in MN.

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  • Note about the police:

    This should really be taken with the understanding that I am a white (trans)woman, who is sober, quiet, who is well practiced in the masking needed to make these types of interactions survivable. I am acutely aware that I am very privileged to have not been treated in the way POC's have and still are. I feel like POC's are likely to be safe in MN, but I'm not qualified to really speak anything beyond that.

    In total, I would guess I have had ~20-25 interactions with police over the last 1.5years. All but 2 of them were almost identical: Sleeping while parked legally overnight, and lasting all of 3 mins to knock on my covered window, do a quick ID check, and make sure im not drunk / OD'd

    The other 2 were fortunately just as uneventful.

    Stay safe out there, no matter where you come from, and remember to stick together when you can. 💜

  • Great article, which may have a small reference to my related experience on the safety I've found in MN.

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  • I've posted a fair handful of comments about the details leading to my current situation, as well as plenty of details about life since, on various posts elsewhere on lemmy. I'm going to avoid wasting time that I already spent writting what was a better comment than I have the energy to do rn. If you have a question, i'll be sure to respond, and especially quick to other transpeople who have questions and are considering seeking safety here.

    Also, feel free to DM me if you have concerns you'd prefer to not have in comments.

    Stay safe out there, you're worth it!

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    kora @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Great article, which may have a small reference to my related experience on the safety I've found in MN.

    mndaily.com /291820/city/trump-reelection-spurs-relocation-concerns-for-transgender-transplants/

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • We all gotta examine our choices from time to time an make sure we are ok with what we considered when made them.

    Otherwise we're likely to end up close minded and arrogant / cocksure and self-righteous.

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • I've had some time to step away, but I do want to address a certain aspect of your comment.

    Setting aside your egregious assumptions about irrelevant discussion, your response reads to me 1 of 2 ways:

    1. You are not very practiced in regular every day communication, and did not understand the discussion and its nuanced and specific nature. And you just jumped the shark, and skipped right on to debating(why?) the general themes of being a multi property company/landlord.
    2. Or you felt the need to toss around your own life's experience as both relevant (it wasn't) or morally superior to a total stranger's. If you need that, then you have my blessing to see it that way, doesn't bother me.

    Now, bringing back the assumptions that are so fucking telling of your privilege in life.

    -My family member has never been a landlord and owns 1 home.

    -I'm unhoused because I had the misfortune of coming out as trans to my disabled family member I had been helping take care of for 5 years and had been living with, and in the same week was let go along with 95% of the company because of a buyout. The lack of stability I'd counted on to push through the initial problems I knew would happen meant I had to still move out just without any income.

    -my financial literacy is far below where I wish it were, but considering that I got to start out adulthood with my credit score already having been wrecked by my abusive guardians I barely made it away from, I'm doing pretty fucking well considering.

    You need to read more, and keep your thoughts internal until you get used to speaking to people in real life. If this thread was a conversation in real life, everyone would have already walked off. JFC

  • If we're living in a simulation, why would the simulation creators allow the sims to ponder and speculate whether or not they live in a simulation?

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  • This comment reads like a person who keeps being pulled into previous lives, and started hallucinating they were some monkish writer.

    Are you ok?

  • How do you guys feel about Autism being used to justify the reason someone committed a crime?

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  • Yup!

    And what isn't an illegal act =/= what isn't morally justified action.

    I wake up each day already doing crime in certain countries.

    Be Gay.

    Do Crime.

    Lots of crime! (ง ื▿ ื)ว

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • Thank you.

    All of this sucks to think about after remembering what all is involved whenever this happens. As much as I need help in life right now, I want as much time as possible between now and then... I have nobody else left, my mom just passed unexpectedly in March, except for the aunt and uncle who abused me for 20 years who have been dead to me for almost 8 years now, and a highly estranged dad.

    I've met others who are im even rougher shape than me, so I know things aren't as worse as they could be, so I'd rather have time shared than whatever is to come after our time runs out... anyways, thanks for being so nice. This is all so hard

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • First and foremost though, physician heal thyself.

    I try. Oh Lord do I try. Every time I try to be kind to myself, its with the job of overcoming the years of reinforced guilt. Its my biggest hurddle in life. At least I'm able to choose kindness towards others day in and day out... thats gotta mean something 😅🥲

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • Unfortunately I don't think that there is any real ability for it to happen without her estate liquidation. Her home is lovely nice and in great shape and her many high-value belongings are in great shape too but they have to be sold I think I can't really even stand asking a single question about all this but I certainly don't feel as though I'm being cheated.

    Especially considering my current situation is partially due to tha fallout from something I thought would never result in an inheritance much less a positive relationship (my having come out as trans 2 years ago while living and helping my mom care for her for 5 years while healing from some really intense trauma and the threat of more that was my prior renting situation.... Aaaand being let go the same week due to company buyout just led to having to move out without somewhere to go) so anything I am getting is unexpected and icing on the cake that is having any relationship at all with my last remaining family member.

    Oh and take a look at some of the other replies I've made as to my thoughts on the rest of your comment, sorry I just don't feel like typing it out anymore. I have led a pretty rough life that still isn't out of the weeds yet, and it wears down on a girl to reshare sometimes.

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • Thanks.

    Yeah, no market rate / ai / industry standards at all. I already know I couldn't live life attempting to justify receiving rent payments that are more than the honest value I'd provided.

    I've rented from a place that couldn't even be bothered to provide what was initally promised at the already needlessly bloated price, and fortunately I was immediately able to stand and fight for them to withdraw from their end of the lease and got mo§t of my money back.

    I've (sub)rented from a friend who took what was left of my nice things (after rapidly selling off so damned much of my few stuff) and all of their stuff, my rent payment, and the additional money I'd pulled together to help them with the panicked rental situation they had presented..... and just leave with all of it and move to another state without even paying the landlord.

    I've rented a room from what looked like an average "middle"class divorcee with a job that supposedly kept them in another state 2 weeks each month, but turned out to be a nightmare of a situation involving him moving in his fellow skinhead neonazi methhead and eventually had the cold barrel of a revolver being pressed against my head to force me to do some terrible stuff, including some stuff thats super duper not legal (and yet somehow was able to at least do what I was being told to do without causing harm to anyone except myself and government)

    And I have even had to move back in with the incredibly abusive family that was supposed to raise me to "try and save up" for my own place, only to loose any ability to heal and grow enough to even see the point of trying to find my own way in life.

    If it is as possible to remain ethical receiving rent payments from another human being, then only the fucking most honest of price and value would already be the only way forward. I can't imagine being in such a position to perpetuate anything

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • *she

    And if I went through with this, I certainly won't be using some standardized pricing. It would be soley based on the my time spent (at the lowest reasonable rate for the area) and expenses associated with owning and upkeep + cost of only the upgrades that the tenants area receive, not the stuff done to spaces that aren't part of the renter's access.

    I don't see this as a way to make a profit. I just see this as the stuff that would be part of, what is the only likely opportunity to own a home that I'll ever have. And after some of the comments so far, I guess I also see this as an opportunity to make someone's renting experience to be way more than even the best of values they could ever find... certainly more than I've had.

  • Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

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  • This shit gives me real, lasting panic, so I actually want other peoples ethical discussion. I've reached the limits of my current strength, but don't want to be caught with pants down should they pass soon.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
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    Related to the recent question: A family member has told me that my inheritance after they're gone is for becoming a live-with landlord. Is that ethical?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Went to get a new DL only to be missing some paperwork, but considering it a W since I got the best photo of myself I've ever taken.

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    Southern Grammar Rules Represent'n

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    Well, I promised I would, so here's the first public photo of me I've ever shared

    ibb.co /kyKH0DG
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    EMF Protection Costume Design for becoming (Rule)r of all porn after the flare strikes.

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    kora @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    After some consideration I decided to ask for the help I need. This is my Gofundme, please do not feel obligated to click or donate. - Blåhaj Lemmy

    lemmy.blahaj.zone /post/10857078