Yeah I have ADHD too, professionally diagnosed and medicated, but even all the NTs I know don't just drool off into nothingness, this thread is eye-opening honestly.
I absolutely daydream and let my mind wander. That is precisely why I listen to music. Obviously the brain requires stimulation, or we wouldn't have a multi-billion dollar entertainment industry and the arts nor science nor literature nor much of anything really.
I personally would derive no stimulation from hearing what racist crap some grampa is shouting down at the pub, nor talking to some random about nothing with whom I have nothing in common.
I don't use a car, almost all of my travel is by walking. So I listen to music for the same reason you listen to anything in your car or at your job.
But for me it is also a way to forget about work and tune out the shit around me and focus my inner thoughts and inner life and also observe the world and get inspired.
Y'all must live some pretty unsafe places if you need to pay attention to your surroundings that much. My condolences.
That's crazy. I had no idea it's that bad in America.
Honestly in my 27 years on this earth I have never actually first party witnessed anyone run a red light or anything like that. Seen plenty of crashes along the roads and been witness to a bus driver that decided to off-road around traffic and almost flew into a ditch once as a kid with me and mom in it.
Otherwise I just don't see them as a concern though.
That's just rude.
No it is not. Someone having a mental health event/crisis might actually appreciate you reaching out to them, and to me that would be an indicator of such behaviour. It is not normal behaviour, which can be a sign of some sort of delusion or a psychotic break from reality someone is experiencing.
Not always, of course, just plain oddball people exist, but if I saw a fully grown ass adult SINGING OUT LOUD or SKIPPING down a fucking sidewalk I'd definitely pay attention and keep my distance and my hands around my valuables.
That's crazy, I would go nuts from the monotony of something like that.
I don't live rurally and I love it, I have nice scenery as well, and I notice all the same things and think about all the same things just like you, but keeping one of my senses busied and tied down is important to facilitate mindfulness, not the opposite.
It is interesting to hear your unique and unusual perspective though.
When there's no novelty of course it's a burden lol, staring off into things I already have seen and know is not exactly intellectually stimulating or enjoyable.
And idk, it's not odd at all, we humans have put massive amounts of time and resources into entertainment for this very purpose, the vast majority of people don't enjoy staring off into nothing till their eyes unfocus, only the extremely online people think that's what people want.
Like I said elsewhere, the few people who do not have earphones in going about their chores stand out, they are very much in the minority, and they are few and far between and I don't know a single person like that IRL.
Were this not the case, we wouldn't even have entertainment, nevermind billions of dollars spent on movies, shows, albums, fiction and non-fiction books, newspapers etc.
Heck I'd go as far as to say that all religion, science and philosophy that did not serve immediate purpose of finding the next meal was created so we could better our lot - which inherently is maximizing happiness, and that inherently includes intellectual stimulation and fulfillment.
I prefer to keep my brain going all the time if I can, it feels much better, always engaging with new art or new ideas inner and outer alike.
I created this post on the toilet while I was taking a dump at work.
It's a random thought that occurred to me. It's not an issue and it's not big and I don't have an "issue" or any fucking "issues", and it's fucking insulting for you to insinuate anything of the sort.
I've had 16 hours of screen time a day since early childhood. It's not about the time it's about how you spend it. I've never "mindlessly scrolled" and I can't even fathom what level of intellectual dishonesty would permit a person to do so.
Hey if the people ITT don't owe me the benefit of the doubt for being ever so slightly different than their hyperonline idea of a person - so much so swarm downvotes at the very notion of someone just existing who's basic experiences contradict their faulty assumptions about what's what - then I don't owe them that either.
That's interesting, for me music helps me focus, otherwise I just end up endlessly distracted and completely away from the world.
Obviously I understand the point about boredom and am aware of it, only the most brainrotten people think boredom isnt good for you, but I am still bored when walking, out of all the senses, only my ears are occupied, almost everything else is kind of an autopilot, like in those studies where people who drive down the same roads for decades end up being dangerous because their brain is no longer actively processing their surroundings.
For me it's more like music is a way to direct my thoughts or to set a tone for them. Maybe I'd like to think about something nostalgic, or something new, and music sets the tone and tunes out distractions in the world so I can stay cognitively engaged.
Then so does most everyone. It's one thing to be "out for a walk" with the purpose of a walk, like in the forest or a park, but it's a whole other thing to be walking for groceries and day after day just zoning out into the same things over and over. That's insanity.
So are you gonna explain your point or just keep feigning shock at what is fairly normal and common IRL?
I'm starting to think you must not go outside very much, because when I look around, people who don't have earphones in are very much the exception, they stand out, hence the question, and on a personal level I honestly don't even know any people IRL who just march on alone without music or like some podcast or audiobook or something.
My girlfriend does this, all my friends do this, the only people who do not do this are usually some older people with kids when they're out with their kids, but then again they're not really on their own, and obviously I wouldn't listen to music on a walk if I was with somebody for that walk like on the weekends etc.
Obviously I do, I don't get why you spun what I said into hyperbole. But what do you do after you've experienced the surroundings, and now have to experience them again, and again, and again?
Honestly y'all must be kinda boring people if you're happy just staring off into nothingness doing nothing at all, just left foot right foot like some kinda robot to and fro on the daily.
When I was a youth, walking with headphones or earbuds meant you had a tapedeck or CD player (and later iPod or smartphone) that could be stolen, making you a more attractive target, as well as one that was easy to sneak up on.
I started off with a cheapo MP3 player, then a PSP as a kid, now it's just my phone.
don't use earphones outside because it's unsafe: Awareness of surroundings is paramount.
No offense, I get it bad things happen but where tf y'all live that this is something you even need to worry about? I'm not getting mugged in broad daylight in a city centre wtf.
What do I do instead? Listen to the birds sing. Listen to snow or leaves crunch underfoot. Sing! Read a book. Skip! Admire the sun through the trees. Look for cool bugs. Have a conversation with a friend. Rehearse a future conversation in my head. Solve math problems. Philosophize.
Yeah I'm not talking about a hike, I'm talking about walking to the grocery store. If I saw someone skipping and singing randomly on the pavement I'd probably ask them if they were alright and maybe call the services.
I obviously can't teleport my friends or S.O. to me every time I go to the store.
The rest of those I do just fine, while also listening to music. Idk how many times you can listen to "leaves crunch underfoot" before it gets a little stale.
Lol, well jokes aside apparently people think that with how many are blasting brainrot tiktoks on full blast on public transport.
Edit: literally downvoted for saying you shouldn't blast tiktoks on public transport. God help us all. I haven't kept tabs on Lemmy for a loooong time but this ain't the same place it was when I left.
Just is weird in my experience. Again - I rarely see people without earphones in.