according to your logic your failure to help me is your failure as human being. weird how you demand others have empathy and demand they help others, but you yourself refuse to do so when confronted with that demand from a stranger on the internet.
it's almost like you refuse to behave by the rules of behavior you demand of others.
that entire depends on the nature of the work. not every plumber is doing back breaking work, and as you get older you'll have younger people under you to do that stuff for you.
the way to have a good job is to have 10 years of experience in something.
pretty much every job is the worst when you are starting out. the issue wiht many younger people is they want a fast-track to top 10% salaries and unless you're a nepo baby or have some rare talent, that just isn't happening for the average person.
most people don't have job security or good pay until they are in their late 30s/40s, when you have a ton of specialized knowledge and hands on experience.
so if someone keeps banging their head into a wall, and asks me why their head hurts, should i tell them how strong and brave they are and how stupid and mean that wall is for hurting their head like that?
also, who is it that is shouldn't be taking care of themselves? apart from children or elderly?
same thing with being exposed to the cold generally. it reduces your immune response. hence why when you are sick, staying warm is important and if you have the flu, you can develop pneumonia from cold exposure.
the other thing is people like go out in a group and just sit there on their phones together. it's wild.
I get ton of feedback now that I am 'too intense' because I interact with people and ask them questions rather than just make vague comments at them. 10 years ago most people seemed to enjoy and be flattered that I asked them questions. now direct eye contact and question asking is 'scary' to people.
I also notice a big uptick in 'experts' as in people who want to lecture me about how stupid and 'wrong' I am... often about my hobbies or job... who know absolutely nothing about my hobbies or job.
i do all of this. it doesn't make any difference. all it does is lead to shallow boring connections based on whining and commiserating about how life here sucks. people in the book clubs don't read the books, they also just want to whine about their lives.
every volunteer group i join... just ends up being a group of core people who want to exclude new people for not looking/talking/thinking just like they do and jerking themselves off about how wonderful and perfect they are and then whining how they can't get new people to join them...
I left my volunteer groups because they became so exclusivist and elitist.
you're one person. the other 99% disagree with you.
but yeah... its' a bullshit generalization because you disagree and apparently your opinion is somehow more valid than everyone else around who is the opposite?
according to your logic your failure to help me is your failure as human being. weird how you demand others have empathy and demand they help others, but you yourself refuse to do so when confronted with that demand from a stranger on the internet.
it's almost like you refuse to behave by the rules of behavior you demand of others.