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𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her]

@ dipshit @lemm.ee

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2 yr. ago

  • On the right path

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  • I'm still seeing a therapist, and if she doesn't prescribe it to me by the end of February or beginning of March, I'm thinking I will start DIY or something similar. I'd rather go through official route if I can.

  • How did you know you were trans?

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  • Well at first I never really thought I was, I like all manners of masculine things like shooter games, sports, fixing cars, getting dirty. Things that are largely considered manly. However I did like to hang out with girls more often, like I felt more comfortable around them. I never really questioned that much it felt normal. But I met someone a few months back who was very much like me, we shared a lot of interests and even had a similar style and when I learned she's transfem it made me seriously start questioning. So I decided to have a little experiment and I asked her to call me by she/her pronouns to see how it felt, and I loved it. It felt so right, so true. A bit later I started to realize that I felt incomplete, my flat and empty chest made me feel discomfort and sadness.

    That's how I knew without a doubt that I was transfem, and every piece of trans literature I read including Gender Dysphoria Bible just cemented that in further.

  • I'm like 99% sure I'm a trans woman... now what?

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  • Speaking from experience as a trans woman myself, the best advice I can give is follow your heart and do what makes you happy. I'd recommend finding some local trans communities where you live, and also getting a gender affirming therapist to talk to, these things have been helpful to me.

  • Transfem tomboys are so underrated

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  • Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • Good suggestion, I'll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I've got the money for it.

    been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

    What? You've been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don't want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • That's good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don't lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn't immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it's something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I'm going for the butch tomboy look, and also it's nice to be strong.

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • I guess it's good that I don't have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

    I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don't think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I'm on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I'll be doing it more then so I don't lose muscle mass as much, that's one thing I don't really want to happen when I'm on E.

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • That's good to know, I'll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • I'll look into getting some of those and trying to see if it looks good and/or makes me feel better. Thank you for the suggestion.

  • How to cope with Chest dysphoria

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  • Oh thank you, I'll definitely look into getting myself some of those. Will make sure to get a high quality one too. I imagine I'll be wearing it almost all the time until I can grow my own natural ones.

    Any suggestions of where I should look to buy them? Could I just look on Amazon or is there a specific brand or site I should be aware of?

  • What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

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  • She absolutely would 🩷 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪

  • We are so back

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  • That way works too, but I'd put nails in the bat and maybe wrap it with barbed wire too. A simple clean bat is too good for them.

  • We are so back

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  • Hell yeah, best way to cure transphobia!

  • What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

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  • I agree, even tho I may be biased.

  • Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

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  • I do not see the problem necessarily with promoting OF etc as sex workers do have to make money and that is their job, however the less savory people who are attracted by the types of porn I listed above do often have problematic views, so agree with you there.

    It would be no different than allowing people to post ads here on Lemmy for Pepsi, Liberty Mutual, and HeGetsUs. If someone made ad accounts to post that shit you'd ban them as an admin, why is OF spam any different to you?

  • Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

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  • I second that one, lemmynsfw is something else entirely. Not just that it's porn but porn instances attract less savory people, especially bots and OF promoters (which are almost the same thing) so probably would be a good idea to axe them for instance health.

  • Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

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  • We don’t want to cut off our community from folks on these instances but if they’re causing a lot of trouble- we can certainly consider it

    If that's the case and there is a desire to have community reach maybe older defederations should be re-evaluated. But I wasn't under the impression that it mattered much compared to safety of minority users and security of the instance.

  • Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

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  • lemm.ee has [email protected] a community which is allowed to thrive by the main admin of this server. Along with all their users. Does this really seem like a good idea guys?