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  • Brainstorm request: Hobbies for depressed autistic/adhd person

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  • thanks! That sounds really really cool! I'm not native to the language that is spoken here, but if that concept is applied to something I know how to do, that'd be really nice.

  • Brainstorm request: Hobbies for depressed autistic/adhd person

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  • thanks!

  • Brainstorm request: Hobbies for depressed autistic/adhd person

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  • I'm in the periphery of a massive city. So getting anywhere takes time, but it is always possible

  • being "confident" doesn't mean you should double check just to be sure, it means you should pretend to be certain about things you are not certain about.

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  • but real confidence is unattainable without doing things that are socially understood as "insecurity" (challenging own beliefs, double checking, asking for more opinions etc..) that's the contradiction

  • being "confident" doesn't mean you should double check just to be sure, it means you should pretend to be certain about things you are not certain about.

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  • Confidence is making a decision and standing by it even if others disagree or try to convince you otherwise.

    then it makes no sense to me to consider confidence a virtue. Noone should pretend to be confident when they are not, and even worse expect others to be confident and take them less seriously when they admit that they are not.

  • being "confident" doesn't mean you should double check just to be sure, it means you should pretend to be certain about things you are not certain about.

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  • but you’re not confident in your initial choices.

    absolutely, and I understand why people expect others to be

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • I'm so glad to read that! Go catch a fly or something! have a great day 🤘

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • looking up at them today he looks visibly bigger. let's see how big they get!

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • it is a daddy long-leg! They seems really nice - in fact he dropped the rest of the fly on my keyboard for me to snack. It was also nicely wrapped in spider webs!

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • I'm damn glad Able won't have to be watered this time!

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • it has long slim legs and a lot of patience

  • there is a spider above my desk and it didn't move in like two months

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  • I don't know but the fly was called Marcus. poor boy :I

  • I accidentally went to the barber of my nightmares

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  • I let my hair grow for a couple of years, then shave it all of and donate my hair. helps me avoid that kind of problem :I

    I'm sorry, I hope you recover quickly :]

  • inability to socialize

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  • thanks. I think the tough part is to understand that advice that works for most people won't work for you. I'll have to figure a lot of things out by myself

  • inability to socialize

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  • I do that too. But I wish I could live around people I could just be honest to and have them understand. I feel bad and dishonest. It's pretty much masking - it helps you survive but it makes you a shell of a person.

  • inability to socialize

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  • it is viscous and it affects pretty much everything I do. The people I live with aren't really able to understand my condition, so I can't expect to work out something that works well for me. I'll move somewhere else when I have the time, energy and opportunity to do so, but until then I'll just make do. I don't want to work on the foundation of a house I don't care that much about. And I'll just use buckets for now if the roof is leaking and look for another roof to live under.

  • inability to socialize

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  • I think it is both. Having people notice makes matters worse for me. Even with the best of intentions, other people's advice is not helpful for me, and I always feel like I have to pretend to be appreciative of what they say.

  • inability to socialize

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  • I really appreciate reading that, thank you!

  • inability to socialize

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  • I'm glad to read that. And I genuinely need to get my thoughts out. :]