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pugnaciousfarter

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  • How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

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  • I guess, I can see what you are trying to say. I don't disagree with what you are saying. But It doesn't work for me specifically.

    All my "achievements"(any that I value) have only been through blood and sweat, and that is partly one of the reasons I dread beginning something new - It will be that difficult all over again.

    What I assume to be equal amounts of effort as anyone else, never usually results in the same outcomes. I spent a year to learn a language, and I am still A1. Now, A1 isn't bad, but I really wanted to have learnt at least B1 by now. I know others who have done that.

    I find it hard to find motivation day in and day out to do things everyday. I want to paste the Vaas meme here. I am enjoying the little things, but there is such existential anxiety that makes it difficult to enjoy even those.

    So I can't just like the process as it is either.

    I am not sure, but I guess I have to change what my "process" is.

  • How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

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  • They suggested I could just come home and sit and watch my cats and... Just do nothing. I'm still working on that one.

    That sounds so difficult for me. Sigh . Just do nothing... A voice in my head keeps telling me "You've wasted so much to me! Others would have finished so much work in this time".

    I know that I should be more kind to myself. I am more kind to myself than I used to be. We only get one life and I can't hate myself in it - Others wouldn't hate themselves, they would be really good at loving themselves! Lol

  • Whats the best voice acting in any video game?

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  • Bastion, Hades. Basically all supergiantgames.

  • The Outer Worlds 2 is a great RPG that exceeded my expectations

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  • I've loved a lot of their newer games - especially Pentiment!

    It was such breath of fresh air and so well written!

  • Do you think the average Lemmy user is further left than the average reddit user?

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  • People are so easily swayed by hate that's marketed towards them.

    Anti-Indian has been such a recent phenomenon. Indians were a model minority only a few years ago. Lol. "Look at them! Why can't you be like them!"

    And don't you dare compliment any chinese military gear on defence subreddits.

    Even with muslims - It's been recent, more in the past 30 years than ever before.

    Fucking losers. Dunk on others to feel better about their own pathetic lives.

  • How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

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  • I want to go to sleep excited for the next day. I used to be motivated by my goals. But goals are hard to achieve and I haven't felt happy in the past after reaching some of my goals.

    I want to enjoy being me without having to work for it.

    Thanks for your reply.

  • Do you think the average Lemmy user is further left than the average reddit user?

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  • Why don't you go back to your loser website then?

    You've got a lot to choose from.

    Odd that you'd try to stay in a place with "extremist left".

  • Do you think the average Lemmy user is further left than the average reddit user?

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  • I don't understand tankies...

    Like dude, it's so clear russia and cccp are not left leaning! They are foremost self-serving!

    This is like calling the Nazis left leaning because they had a few social policies.

    Also, I mean I also like soviet aesthetics, it doesn't mean that I am going to ass lick their authoritarian asses.

  • Do you think the average Lemmy user is further left than the average reddit user?

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  • I am seeing open racism more than ever on reddit.

    It probably has something to do with the type of crowd that reddit promotes. More controversial takes probably get boosted more because they draw more eyes for more time. They're trying to copy Meta.

  • How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

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  • I know this.

    I was wondering how to effectively separate my self-worth from the "Achievements".

    I want it to be the process, but I can't seem to make it the process.

  • How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

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  • It works well as a form of motivation though, albeit slightly toxic.

    Yeah, but it only works so much. Then it's just a voice that's bullying you.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    pugnaciousfarter @literature.cafe

    How to separate self-worth from Achievements and External Validation?

  • Anyone in a relationship that you don't want to be in but you're terrified of leaving?

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  • People can surprise you. But weaning them might help.

  • how did you make the switch from reddit to lemmy.. i'm trying to myself but struggling to ngl

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  • I really want some of my niche subreddits. They're like crack.

    Obligatory fuck spez.

  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • Yeah I guess it is not feasible.

  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • No no. I have nothing to do with Blockchain. I barely understand it.

    I was just thinking about methods of mitigating harm from misinfo and scam.

    And since Blockchain provides privacy but at the same time provides some information to the public I thought it might have worked.

  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • It would be another variable to work with when trying to distinguish if the image/video is genAI or not.

  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • Oh damn. It's starting to sound like something that can be used to justify complete control over people's lives.

    Governments and corporates might use the "security reasons" reason to get even more info and control over us.

    Yeah that was not my intention.

  • Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

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  • The point was to mitigate the harm I suppose, not entirely stop it.

    As for the mandatory dpxxing, you'd just be registering on the block chain, but wouldn't give away any other information.

    So the only info that you give away is - whether something is real or not.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    pugnaciousfarter @literature.cafe

    Block chain to verify AI content and to stop AI scams and spread of misinfo

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    pugnaciousfarter @literature.cafe

    What is the right way to eat a Mango?