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  • I've been harassed, yelled at, and insulted by women in the women's room, but at least they never physically assaulted me. I don't know if I could count on the men in the men's room not to do the same and I'd rather not take the chance. I remember a story about a trans woman who was killed in the men's room and it still gives me chills thinking about it.

  • I usually go in the women's room because people clock me more feminine than masc. Men's room is very risky because they might not care but they might also be violent. If the bathroom is busy I pee sitting down so no one sees my feet facing the wrong way, I don't really like it and it feels awkward to do which is why I pee standing up when it's not busy or no one else is in there. I have been caught a few times and the women gave me shit for it, though it was always yelling, chastising, or slurs, they never got violent with me. Most violent one got was grabbing my ear and escorting me out of the bathroom. I don't know if I could trust the men to do the same. I heard a story of a trans woman who was physically and sexually assaulted and murdered in a men's room. That story is very much burned into my mind.

    I usually try to avoid public bathrooms in general but lately that's been harder.

  • That's what I usually do. Some people get mad or annoyed with me but I imagine it could be physically dangerous to go into the men's room.

  • When you're Nonbinary every bathroom feels like this, not because you don't know which is which but because you don't know which choice is more wrong or will get you in more trouble.

  • linuxmemes @lemmy.world

    Xenia doesn't like Systemd

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca

    I was made a war machine

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    War machine Rule

  • Videos @lemmy.world

    Fear of Cold: Jacob Geller

  • Why do people get her name wrong so often? Is there something I'm missing?

  • I smoked weed when I was a teen and I turned out just fine. My brother didn't and he still failed in grades and got himself kicked out of school over a girl. The thing about marijuana screwing up your brain is a lie pushed by the government to try and make people afraid of something that is otherwise harmless.

    Some people (idiots) say it made me queer (nonbinary) or mentally ill (therian) but I always was those things long before I started smoking. It was only years after I smoked that I came out of the closet.

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Air Guitar rule

  • yellow

    Wouldn't you lose the fur from your ears and tail though>

  • They mean those cute fuzzy ears like what catgirls have

    Yes I know catboys have them too, and that there are ones of the NonBinary variety (I'm one of those).

  • Would probably be like a sphinx cat or those hairless dogs.

  • I choose 1, 4, 8.

    1 and 8 helps with my species dysphoria and 4 is $20, can't pass up 20 bucks man.

    I also don't really see the benefit of the others to me.

  • That sounds really hard, I personally don't even like wearing long sleeves (feels uncomfortable for me) unless it's below zero (Celsius, though it's not a hard limit and some days even if it's well below it feels hot an uncomfortable to wear long sleeves), so I couldn't even imagine how uncomfortable wearing a hoodie would feel in very hot weather (though I'm not really the biggest fan of hoodies to begin with, sleeveless ones are kind of Okay though).

  • Well it seems like there's only 1 button, with 99% chance of money and 1% chance of gender-swap, and the person was advocating to keep pressing it until hitting the 1%

  • Wouldn't that cause like apocolyptic over-inflation though similar to what happened to Venezuela (just bigger and more out of control)?

  • If you don't want to be a girl it's a very big risk for some money, small chance but big risk don't get greedy. (Note: Before you say something like "why wouldn't someone want to be a girl" please remember Enbies and transmascs exist and try not to be invalidating to them, thank you. Coming from a nonbinary who's been grossly invalidated due to dressing fem).

    If you do want to be a girl, then the downside is apocalyptic inflation, due to how many times you need to do it to get the 1% and how much money will be summoned to.

  • Couldn't have said it better myself. Federating with Threads would be more destructive than it would be beneficial, not to mention Meta's horrible track record (FYI Meta was Facebook so everything Facebook did Meta also did, don't ever forget that they're connected).