That’s kind of how it is but the other way. I’ve noticed people just assume really quickly then write some rude reply and the clearly forming hive mind jumps in… not fun
Good on you for using your real name. Just as some criticize wikipedia for anonymitity, I wonder if a forum with real names would cause people to be more respectful.
Your an admin here, can I ask which com is best for selfhosting?
Taking a break is a good idea but I came here from reddit because I enjoy selfhosting and believed in this alternative. I don't know where else I'd go. I enjoy the forum style community.
Personally I would prefer a tankie over a reddit-style neolib but I get your point. I'll have to checkout the interface!