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Fisherman75

@ Fisherman75 @lemmy.world

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  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • You keep adding parts to your comment. Just make a new comment.

    I've turned inward plenty. It's valid that I feel gaslit. I should trust my instincts.

  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • No the other guy effing loves Israel. You love guns. Also why are you making a big deal of me awkwardly trying to solve some issues in my life by calling it weird? Don't you think I have a reason to be on here? You're both being straight up bullies.

  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • The left welcomes the strange fyi.

  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • Yeah you're just being a bully.

  • How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

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  • Are you trying to be a bully?

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    Fisherman75 @lemmy.world

    How should I approach having relatively obscure points of lack of privilege?

  • Is it possible I am intersex if I apparently have a very wide female pelvic bone and everything else is male?

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  • I have this pelvic bone thing. I'm 5' 10.25", I think average for men is 5' 9". A lot of puberty things have been lagging including my apache beard, virtually no hair on torso or arms, squeaky crackly young sounding half broken voice, and yeah exactly slight development of breast tissue. No one has ever said anything about my chromosomes though.

  • Is it possible I am intersex if I apparently have a very wide female pelvic bone and everything else is male?

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  • Like what? What else might I have? I'm going mostly by appearances. I guess my voice never completely broke and I'm already 30 but I thought that might be kallmann syndrome or similar.

  • Is it possible I am intersex if I apparently have a very wide female pelvic bone and everything else is male?

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  • It seems pretty obvious just from the outside. It sticks out like one or two inches or so on either side right at the pelvic bone. Males I've seen always just have a straight line from armpit to waist.

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    Fisherman75 @lemmy.world

    Is it possible I am intersex if I apparently have a very wide female pelvic bone and everything else is male?

  • How could a three to five minute level of urban planning be incorporated into larger city systems?

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  • Well that's a good point. I used to live in an even smaller town and had to walk only maybe a block to get to a little hispanic shop with two short aisles of groceries where I got everything I needed about every other day. I miss those times. There were these feral chickens roaming the little park I had to walk through and where I lived was the first place of my own. Good memories. I remember getting pork rinds too from that shop.

    Anyway now I go to a big box grocery store kind of generic but also has a lot of hispanic products and style.

    There was a time I lived in a different small town in a boarding house and would get extra snacks and food from the dollar general which was like a mile away. Sometimes I would be carrying two or three bags. I remember rummaging through their movie bins every time I went there to see if there were any must-haves. When I lived there I would also go the 7/11 and do basically the same routine.

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    Fisherman75 @lemmy.world

    How could a three to five minute level of urban planning be incorporated into larger city systems?

  • It seems like I feel safer now in the inner city than the suburb I grew up in

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  • When I lived in that nice middle class neighborhood growing up there was a drive-by shooting (which we all completely panicked about and made a huge deal), a meth lab that was discovered one day three doors down (the police came with hazmat suits and everything), my drug-addicted uncle was often wandering into the house drugged up on heroin, and there was this longstanding story about a guy a few houses down the other street who killed his wife then went up to a nearby mountain and shot himself. People had been warning me about poor neighborhoods all my life up until I was 21 saying they were even worse. But since winding up constantly in poor neighborhoods I've never been mugged, developed a generally thick skin, basic street smarts, learned who not to look in the eye, what not to do, how to react, how not to react, stay out of people's business, what situations lead to what other situations, don't be such a stickler about every little crime or suspicion of crime, listen to some gansta rap, know the greats, vibe, and everything is gravy. Seems simple to me now. Now I just enjoy the neighborhood. Birds chirping. Trees swaying. Haven't heard about any murders, meth labs, and I can afford a place of my own, or at least a room of my own. It's better than being a thin-skinned suburbanite who finds themselves walking on eggshells the minute a wild crime-ish energy appears.

  • It seems like I feel safer now in the inner city than the suburb I grew up in

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  • Being paranoid about getting robbed wasn't exactly my anxiety though. It was a lot more so the physical proximity to locally powerful people who make decisions every day that ruin dozens or even hundreds of lives in big ways with total impunity making me wonder how they are actually willing to entrap and hurt me or to have me be hurt. I hardly ever go to my dad's house anyway. Material possessions aren't a big factor in my sense of security. I have very little social competence in dealing with powerful people aligned for whatever reason in whatever way against me let alone physical competence (i.e. police), but there is a sense of social competence I have with people who would rob in a poor neighborhood. It's like a different bioregion and I feel like it is increasingly separating from the entire rest of America like a checkerboard. I have seen so few police cars lately, it's strange.

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    Fisherman75 @lemmy.world

    It seems like I feel safer now in the inner city than the suburb I grew up in