Easy (and absolutely not limited to the UK): they don't see themselves as being part of that social "group", they see themselves as someone better/above them.
An age-old human trait, really.
whereas the other options basically force you to forever use their database-based system and files are terribly organized, so you are forced to use their interface.
Immich has a "storage templates" section which allows you to choose a folder structure that it will use to store the files in.
Or go the other way and include your folders as external libraries.
Yeah, that's not going to work. You'll have to at least rank your requirements. Is size more important, or is it the number of RAM slots? Also, what is "enough CPU/Ram"?
Also also, "unlimited" will only get you unrealistic things like the 10k+ PCI-E SSDs.
Lallafa wrote about a girl who had left him and precisely what he thought about that. Long after his death his poems were found and wondered over. News of them spread like morning sunlight. For centuries they illuminated and watered the lives of many people whose lives might otherwise have been darker and dryer. Then, shortly after the invention of time travel, some major correcting fluid manufacturers wondered whether his poems might have been better still if he had had access to say a few words to that effect. They traveled the time waves; they found him. They explained the situation -- with some difficulty -- to him, and did indeed persuade him. In fact they persuaded him to such effect that he became extremely rich at their hands, and the girl about whom he was otherwise destined to write with such precision never got around to leaving him, and in fact they moved out of the forest to a rather nice pad in town and he frequently commuted to the future to do talk shows, on which he sparkled wittily.
Lallafa never got around to writing the poems, of course, which was a problem, but an easily solved one. The manufacturers of correcting fluid simply packed him off for a week somewhere with a copy of a later edition of his book and stacks of dried habra leaves to copy them out onto, making the odd deliberate mistake and correction on the way.
It grew from a nice Owncloud fork into a do-it-all groupware solution by adding on more and more things without really improving the basis. Each version the performance gets a little worse, syncing gets stuck more often, etc.
Opencloud looks or at least looked good as it started out as an Owncloud Infinite Scale fork, but of course they're adding on more and more groupware stuff without improving the core first. Maybe we're doomed to witness the same cycle with each solution, who knows.
You didn't put a country, but wherever you are: check the laws regarding underage relationships, if any. He might actually get into trouble depending on what they're up to.
and people who want it to work with minimal friction.
We're talking (potentially) highly sensitive contents here for the most part. Yes, selfhosting has become easier than ever, but at the same time more people who basically lack the experience and/or patience to actually understand what they're doing want to start selfhosting. And that simply doesn't end well in an alarmingly high number of cases.
Yeah sure, of course there are tools that can make life easier. But have a look at the "big" self-hosting packages. A lot of them will need at least some manual configuration. Then there's the "exposing a host to the open net" aspect, which can (and usually will) introduce a whole different level of attack surfaces.
So combine that with the ever-growing number of self-hosters, and of course you will notice more advice like that.
Easy (and absolutely not limited to the UK): they don't see themselves as being part of that social "group", they see themselves as someone better/above them. An age-old human trait, really.