Nah. Even if it's hetero, it's probably not straight. Straightness is similar to whiteness; simply a term to say "you're normal and deserving of respect." It's a normal word, not simply a descriptive one.
Dating a nonbinary person as a binary person is definitionally hetero, but hard to call straight. An agender person and a bigender person would totally be het, but totally not be straight. If it's not a relationship between 2 monogamous, cishet people assigned opposite sexes at birth, it's weird and unnatural.
Bigots can literally gatekeep straightness from a cishet woman dating a cisbi man. It's like a tainting of her for being with a queer person, even if neither she nor the relationship is queer. It doesn't matter if they're monogamous for life; it's one drop of queerness poisoning their ability to be normal. They'd need to hide his true orientation.
I feel like it's been king "stork on a log" vs king "pollution factory" as of late. The bubble of liberal capitalism had to burst if it refused to retract ¯(ツ)/¯
Tbf, some children's shows are disturbing af. At the same time, I'm just not good with poo. I'll watch irl gore like it's nothing, but feel sick when I see fecal play. "2 girls, 1 cup" didn't become infamous for simply being lewd.
I personally resolve the problem by throwing out the concept of fault and blame. The cause of the bad incident is not being conscientious enough, so we ought to be conscientious and learn what to be conscientious about. It doesn't matter who's fault it is, only that we work to minimize such risk.
As we learn of the dangers in life, we should take them into consideration as best we can. We should set aside time and plan for mitigation measures like putting tools away.
Unfortunately for us, efficiency incentivizes us to not do this. If you aren't immoral and reckless, you get supplanted by people that are. We need then need to set aside more of our time to work against those who endanger lives. If this isn't done, the world reverts to a state of nature with no social contract, formal or otherwise.
A crude drawing of a human faced snail shitting on its own head is disturbing. I've seen fucked up shit, and while it's not too extreme in the grand scheme of things, fecal stuff can be particularly upsetting to many people.
.world users suck compared to blahaj.zone. With .ml, you get tankies, but with .world, you get more transphobes and lib normies. I spend all my time here, getting shocked by what's normalized when I visit other instances. The people here can be horny, but are much more likely to respect boundaries if told.
I'd suggest starting a full dose as soon as possible for a couple of reasons.
First, people who know you are actually less likely to notice changes than strangers. So long as you're not super close to them anymore, they might not notice that you pass as a girl if you aren't being overtly feminine. Even if you stop being able to pass as male to the world, you might still pass to your parents.
Second, there really isn't much benefit to being at a lower dose, as our body prefers to be dominated by one sex hormone or the other. We're a bit less healthy at lower e in an e dominant system, or lower t in a t dominant system. There is wiggle room, but at the cost of numerous systems that function best in either sweet spot.
That said, e regiments start off at a tentative dose anyways, as that's both safer for most meds, and how natural puberty begins. There are even arguments that starting lower has better results, but that science isn't as settled.
You're probably fine with starting out as is typical, especially since you're moving away in a few months anyways. Even if you see rapid progress, you'll probably be able to cover for the effects, especially in winter clothing. It also takes time to find a supplier or a doctor, whether you do DIY or informed consent. You'll stop hair loss so long as you have proper testosterone suppression, and for that, you want to act quickly.
He stuck with her until she died if I remember correctly. It's not like he had a choice outside of finding someone new.