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abbadon420

@ abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

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    Do you think 20 is too young for a guy to get married?

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  • You do you, man!I don't see why you would though. There's no purpose to actual marriage except taxes. There's no difference in marrying now or marrying in 10 years from now. Being together is what actually counts. But you should just do what feels good.

    Keep in mind though, marriage as in "sharing your entire life with someone", is not something that just happens. It takes work to make a marriage work. Marrying at this age means that you both still have a lot of growth to go through. When you're both 30, you will not be the same persons as you are now. If you want to remain together at that point, you will have to also grow your relationsship into something new that works for your 30 year old selfs. It takes compromise, sacrifice, trust to make a marriage last.

    A common complaint to marrying this young is that you will "miss" the freedom of the bachelor life. The risk is that you will regret missing out on the bachelor life, later in life. You're the one to dicide if you rather want to live wild and free now, or start the rest of your life right now. Imho, marriage doesn't mean that you have to miss out on experiences, but you'll have different experiences, shared experiences.

    You will either grow into this relationship, making it more likely to succeed or you will grow into someone else, making it more likely to fail. Don't let that hold you back in doing what feels good though. Life is never a certainty. I got married and a kid a 23 and I'm still happy at 36.

  • haven't heard it

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  • Well, I think 2026 is going to be a good year for my career. I'm almost done with my thesis, so I expect to start 2026 by getting my bachelor. From there, I'll see what happens, but at least it opens up a lot of oppertunities.

  • AI Youtube Videos are like going to the garbage and remixing everything so it's shiny and new.

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  • Yes of course. As opposed to the crab-people, the mole-people and even the lizard people, turd-people have very succesfully invaded our midst. These days there are just as many, if not more, turd-people than actual people. This isn't just a conspiracy, the numbers back it up.

  • I'm sorry, Dave

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  • No, you're thinking about the zeroes. Those were 10 years ago.

  • AI Youtube Videos are like going to the garbage and remixing everything so it's shiny and new.

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  • Yes you can. You can polish it, paint it, cover it in glitter, name it "Duke of York", whatever. But it will always just bel a turd

  • AI Youtube Videos are like going to the garbage and remixing everything so it's shiny and new.

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  • You should use your subscribed feed. Also, newpipe

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    Roommate has loud late-night hookups every night, what can I do?

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  • Like the other guy mentioned, requesting a transfer is a good idea. But before you finalize that, it might be a good exercise to try and talk to the guy. Knowing you have the option to transfer, it might be less scary to talk to the guy. You'll eventually have to learn to talk to such people, if you want to navigate your way through life, the job market, your career, anywhere really. Best to do that in a relatively safe situation. Communication skills are always a usefull skill to learn.

  • Hey capitalism how's it goin?

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  • To be fair, me and the mates have thought of worse ideas on bar nights.

  • The Final Final Layer_new(3)

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  • What a horrible title. Maybe it's time to start using git

  • Where is the lie?

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  • Rule number (i forgot which number) of the internet is that everyone is a white, american, male until proven otherwise.

  • What are some things you put a ton of effort & work into, but it pays you $0, and you wish there could be some reward for all your hard work?

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  • Currently working on my bachelor. Obviously that's not earning me any money right now, but the hope is that it eventually will. Good thing is that it's also not costing me any money, since my employer pays for it.

  • What would you want to see this site do differently from Reddit?

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  • Don't be evil

  • Whats a band/artist who's music all sounds the same?

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  • 10cc and maroon5.Both equally boring as well

  • Wise wisdom 😌

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  • What would you want to do for the first time all over again?

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  • I'd like to watch TNG, GOT or The Expanse for the first time again

  • What is the most relieving thing you've done for yourself?

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  • Fitness.

    I had been getting more frequent backpains and just a general feeling of being unfit. Walking uo stairs would leave me breathless. I couldn't run for more than 200 meters without gasping for air.

    Now I started going to the gym, 3 years ago and I feel fit now. Sometimes I still get pains, sometimes I even get pains because of cardio of lifting, but those arent as bad. I feel more alive and more comfortable because I'm fit now. I'm still fat and ugly, but also fit.

  • Checks out

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  • I'm thankful for javascript, because I love bashing frontenders

  • What's your professional deformation?

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  • I used to do order picking in a large warehouse. We used headphones that told you were to go. You could also give verbal commands liek "repeat". So after a week or so I started "repeat"-ing my mom when I didn't hear what she said.

  • Shout out to anyone wondering what the opposite of in is!

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  • WHAT?!

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    If you smoothened out the earth, how high would the water level be?

  • Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ @lemmy.dbzer0.com
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    How to get subtitles in jellyfin

  • Star Trek Social Club @startrek.website
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    Just watched SNW 03.04 and that monologue by "Joni Gloss" about inspiring generations... it touched me

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    Why is Bolsonaro still so popular in Brazil that tens of thousand people took to the street to protest his trial?

    apnews.com /article/brazil-bolsonaro-protests-verdict-week-987d77696b5c88eaeace3ce9450291a8
  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    Americans who live near state borders,how do you notice you've crossed the border?

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    abbadon420 @sh.itjust.works

    I wonder if the yearly statistics from PornHub are gonna be influenced by the new ID laws in the UK