Well that's great! Happy belated birthday. My comment might have been a bit rude in its wording, sorry, but I insist. As a father of 2, only a couple of years older than yours, I think any sign of mutual understanding of the incredible power of parenthood surpasses a material gift.
Age is a personal piece of information, but you can't be old enough to spend money for your dad's birthday. Even if he had you at 18 and you're almost an adult.
If you feel like your dad has everything he needs, you might be right, and he's a lucky bastard to have you. Keep your money and write him a letter.
I was gifted one of these 5 years moomin journals by my SO and started it in January this year. I had never kept a daily log ever before. I used to write regularly but never on a fix schedule. It's a lot of discipline and work!
Funny how you can SOUND like a person who doesn't wash his own underpants. And a white male in his late 30's. And a high-performer but on a razor narrow and specificaly capitalistic set of criteria.
I just very recently discovered that bitwarden (vaultwarden) has this perfect feature like a "trusted contact" (not sure) where you can choose a person that can request access to your password vault, and if you DON'T answer in X days (configurable), they get access.
After steaming I compress the tracks into a purée with 192 kilograms of olive oil. Good omega-3kHz.