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Of the Air (cele/celes)

@ oftheair @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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pronouns: cele/celes

Plural. This is why we use we. Trans{gender and species}.

We aren't human, thank you!

We are also ace- and aro- spec, so don't direct sexual or romantic things at us. Even if it's meant as non-romantic or non-sexual just don't say we are loved or you love us etc.

Don't call yourself any familial (dad, mum etc) words at us, it is extremely traumatic for us.

Some of the fediverse's most hated mods and social justice advocates.

If personally attacked, argued against in bad faith, or find folks not confronting their own biases, being bigoted etc we will call it out, report or just block. You have been warned.

  • Dealing with trauma and finding friend groups

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  • Good luck, we have pretty much a similar situation.

  • I only feel gender dysphoria once a while after identifying as trans.

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  • We can't necessarily help specifically. However, we will say it's okay to explore and question things, even throughout the entirety of your life.

    There's no problems with exploring who you are or what it is you want, even if it's what you thought you were for most of your life.

    Exploring identity is one of the most worthwhile things anybody can do and you'll likely end up more in touch with yourself because of it.

    Never be afraid to explore or revisit ideas, even if you find yourself not being them you'll have learned from it. The journey is what's most important, not the destination 😉

  • If Marxism was a show

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  • Good thing it is not, since there are better political theories now.

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • Thanks for explaining!

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • Ah, then we disagree. Thank you for explaining. No, we just didn't understand what they meant.

    It is very difficult when someone else was the one who made the comment and this reply chain is to that entity, not the one replying to all this.

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • You misread our tone. We are more confused than anything else.

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • We agree, fuck all colonisers in the past, now and forever.

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • What is? Why are you replying to us?

  • Things like this show why Land Back is important.

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  • Land back means all of it.

  • Doing it for the children

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  • If you want to protect kids these laws are not the way to do it. The only way to do so is social methods, not mass technological laws.

  • But but but

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  • Good point!

  • Help with support group recommendation

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  • We have both blocked 😆

  • Help with support group recommendation

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  • But but but

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  • Tomato is a fruit 😉

  • Flowers to ladies 🌷🌹🪻

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  • kinda? Demiboy?

  • progesterone sources?

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  • Yes, we weren't implying you or anyone or anymany specific should, just you know, it would be nice if someone or somemany would, not sexually, just as examples. We're pretty ace after all, so it wouldn't be for titillation, for us at least.

    We have been on HRT longer than that, maybe 3 or 4 years and been messed around with our levels for a long time. We have been higher than 1000 pmol/L for a while, but our latest doctor maybe brought that down so we don't know, still have to do a test for that.

    We started prog about a year in, maybe a bit less, maybe a bit more.

  • progesterone sources?

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  • Ah, okay, thank you for the advice and information.

    Yeah, we get that but then it creates a sort of unfortunate situation or catch 22 or something where dysphoric trans femmes feel that they're not normal and they did something wrong. Obviously we can't make other trans femmes without the 'perfect' big and round ones post, but we think it would help a lot not just for dysphoria but to challenge the idea that there's only one type out there.

  • progesterone sources?

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  • It might have messed it up for us, it did accelerate our breast growth, but ours are relatively small and triangular compared to the perfectly round and big ones we have seen other trans femmes have online so it's kind of dysphoria inducing. We started about a year in.

    Either that or our genes are bad. Which would not make sense since biologically related folks have perfectly fine ones, but who knows.

  • progesterone sources?

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