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Of the Air (cele/celes)

@ oftheair @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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pronouns: cele/celes

Plural. This is why we use we. Trans{gender and species}.

We aren't human, thank you!

We are also ace- and aro- spec, so don't direct sexual or romantic things at us. Even if it's meant as non-romantic or non-sexual just don't say we are loved or you love us etc.

Don't call yourself any familial (dad, mum etc) words at us, it is extremely traumatic for us.

Some of the fediverse's most hated mods and social justice advocates.

If personally attacked, argued against in bad faith, or find folks not confronting their own biases, being bigoted etc we will call it out, report or just block. You have been warned.

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  • Do not do this!

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  • There aren't any good 'big' ones, but local ones are often worth paying for and supporting since they actually do good journalism.

  • The Right Is Now Transvestigating Charlie Kirk and His Wife, Erika

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  • sighs loudly

  • I want to live in the world NY Post lives in!

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  • Amazing how they seemingly do not know what any of this means, as they're getting several symbols and ideologies/systems mixed up.

  • NSFW

    Case – Laparoscopic radical prostatectomy in a transgender woman after gender-affirming vaginoplasty

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  • to my mind there is no reason to wait for an orchi

    What if you think you want children but aren't sure and currently have no partners who would want them but you never know in the future, and you left it until you got on HRT to figure out whether to back up reproductive cells or not, but that would mean coming off of HRT?

  • So for some good news

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  • Patches. We tried gel but it's annoying to wait for it to dry and the estrogen levels are kind of spikey.

  • So I gave this a shot, but now what?

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  • Therapists are always necessary.

  • The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

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  • it also communicates they were assigned male at birth

    Not necessarily, they could be intersex and be assigned that, it's rare but it can happen.

  • The real homeland security

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  • Or taken all of your stolen land back?

    Can you destroy a rotten empire that is failing?

  • What body changes would y'all want in a trans humanist sci-fi future?

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    • Live for as long as we choose
    • The ability to shape shift at will
    • The ability to become pregnant
    • Wings
    • Lots of eyes
    • Color changing hair

  • Kamala Harris Says She Has “Concerns” About Trans Student Athletes

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  • Don't be a plonker

    🙄 We can have a decent conversation without resorting to insults and name calling, thanks.

    But yes, we understand now, thanks.

  • Kamala Harris Says She Has “Concerns” About Trans Student Athletes

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  • Almost like both 'sides' are the same...

    Or just all governments eventually become this, maybe we should just get rid of all of them.

  • Kamala Harris Says She Has “Concerns” About Trans Student Athletes

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  • Sports were and are never about being 'fair', they keep trying to use that as an excuse though.

  • Creation Of A New Trans Oriented ENM Community Has Begun

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  • I don't think you're being very fair here.

    Yeah, that's uh, fair. We guess a better way to put it is more than any other way of relating it is supposed to be that way, other relationship types are not inherently set up that way nor have that as an inherent guideline, is that okay?

  • Creation Of A New Trans Oriented ENM Community Has Begun

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    We don't agree with that definition of Relationship Anarchy completely.

    Hi, we're relationship anarchists and instead for us it's more about not basing our relationships on what society thinks they should be. We can have labels but they're not automatic and don't necessarily mean much, what matters more is what we agree upon those labels mean, ignoring what society etc defines them as.

    We also don't agree with hierarchy at all in relationships, this means that friends are not less or more important than partners and vice versa, and one partner is not more important than another. Instead we tend to go for temporary priorities but nobody is overall more important than anybody else.

    It can work for either those who are polyamorous or monogamous as well as long as the comitment of no hierarchy and not basing your relationships on predefined ideas of what they should be or look like.

    On the polyamory side it tends not to fit with hierarchical polyamory (hopefully obviously), so it's more towards the solo polyamory or non hierarchical polyamory end.

    We tend not to go for the relationship escalator, nor pushing each other into things etc, instead it is very consensual, unlike other relationship types, everything is discussed and consented to, and if it isn't it doesn't happen.

    There's a manifesto written by Andie Nordgren who popularised it: https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy

    There's also this site: https://relationship-anarchy.com/ and the youtube channel AnRel (Anarcho Relating) that explains all this more in depth.

    But yes, the labels thing isn't really much to do with it. Instead it's more about defining our own relationships as we want to, not how others want us to.

  • Damm commies

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  • LOAO

  • if only...

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  • The 'just right' president.

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    The Politics of Sex at Birth (or why we should stop saying AMAB and AFAB)

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Dyeing armpit hair help request

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    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Followup to our previous post, a new community

    lemmy.blahaj.zone /c/tquad
  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    More appropriate place for more 'personal' and intimate questions etc?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    What are neovaginas like?

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Positive Asexual Reps in Media by StephGuzDoodles

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality by Misty Sparkles

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    PPT Surgeons in UK?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Possible physical transition problems based on what we are taking, can y'all help?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    What happens if we put patches in the fridge if they say not to?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Looking for specific kinds of skirts (or dresses) in the uk