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orphiebaby

@ orphiebaby @lemm.ee

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  • Hilarious or insane? You decide.

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  • God dammit, I just watched that movie for the first time. With my housemates, like two weeks ago.

  • Hilarious or insane? You decide.

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  • ...You can be anti-Muslim without it having anything to do with other groups of people. Not that being anti-Muslim is a good thing.

    God I hate the binary-thinking world we live in.

  • Hilarious or insane? You decide.

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  • ...What.

  • We may not have everything pinned down yet, partially because of the "I am/my kid is special too!" movement; but if several or more symptoms aren't shared, the specific label shouldn't be shared.

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  • I do like a lot of what you're saying, but this over here made me raise an eyebrow:

    In the end, whether someone is autistic or not (as currently defined by autism as a diagnosis) is subject to an arbitrary line where the judge says “this is/isn’t autistic enough”

    So you're saying that "whether someone is autistic or not is arbitrary, there is no finite criteria," and "everybody's a little autistic, some people are just more"?

  • We may not have everything pinned down yet, partially because of the "I am/my kid is special too!" movement; but if several or more symptoms aren't shared, the specific label shouldn't be shared.

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  • Indeed! And sorry for your experience.

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    Where on the spectrum are you?

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  • I am lower-left quadrant by far. I used to make myself the center of attention, I was cringey, and everyone knew who I was-- whether that made them love me or hate me.

  • We may not have everything pinned down yet, partially because of the "I am/my kid is special too!" movement; but if several or more symptoms aren't shared, the specific label shouldn't be shared.

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  • Non-rhetorical questions, just to get you to think.

    1. What are symptoms associated with autism? Are there any? Well, stimming is a thing, right? I'm not claiming stimming is universal for autism; but if it's associated with autism, then that's a pattern, right? Autism has more stimming than the neurotypical control group?
    2. Is autism mental only, or is it neurological? If it has sensory symptoms (once again not necessarily universally, but as a pattern more than neurotypical/control), that's neurological, right?
    3. What does "autism is a spectrum" mean? Does it mean autism varies some, or does it mean it varies indefinitely? If it varies some, where does the grouping end? If autism varies indefinitely, why is human =/= autistic?
    4. How do you define autism? What makes an autistic person different from non-autistic people?
    5. If autism is just "having a special mind", then what's the difference between autism and other neurodivergencies and statistically-smaller psychologies? ADHD? Mathematical genius/brilliance? Bipolar? Severe intellectual disability?

    Remaining sort of neutral with my opinions, I still state that autism must be by definition a mental and/or neurological phenomenon, and that means it has symptoms or criteria of some kind. And if autism doesn't, then it would not be finite, and that would mean everyone is autistic, and therefore it would be a useless label and "autism" wouldn't exist.

    If you believe that you are neurodivergent, but you don't share a not-insignificant number of relevant traits with another neurodivergent person, then you wouldn't share a label. It wouldn't mean you're not neurodivergent, it means you should find another label. And if you can't find one that fits adequately, I encourage you to explore your own symptoms/criteria and create one.

  • We may not have everything pinned down yet, partially because of the "I am/my kid is special too!" movement; but if several or more symptoms aren't shared, the specific label shouldn't be shared.

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  • Dumb, preachy meme made by myself.

  • Autism @lemmy.world
    orphiebaby @lemm.ee

    We may not have everything pinned down yet, partially because of the "I am/my kid is special too!" movement; but if several or more symptoms aren't shared, the specific label shouldn't be shared.

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    Gaily Autistic

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  • Love Avenue Q, even the songs others forget ^^

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    Gaily Autistic

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  • Perfect. Thank you. I'll remember this one.

  • The perfect commit message

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  • Jesus. Citation seriously needed.

  • The perfect commit message

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  • I agree, we need more words. We lose words all the time, too, due to assumptive abuse.

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  • You know how long I've been trying to teach people this? Thank freaking god there are people out there who understand this besides me.

  • I now know why you cry

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  • Nobody's exposed to everything. I've never watched A Christmas Story and I don't care to. I've never watched Back to the Future either, though it's been on TV while I wasn't paying attention. I'd watch those three though if I had someone to watch them with. I did however finally watch It's a Wonderful Life for the first time last Christmas. Except for some of the angel stuff, it's held up really well, and it had a really positive impact on me.

  • Oh no, Anarchists!

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  • Transformation complete

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  • I literally saw that first.

  • Bet there's a real story like this out there somewhere

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  • Ah, okay, I was wondering what this post meant. I was still thinking normal white mushrooms, which I love on pizza

  • Do any of you meditate?

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  • Not regularly; but when I'm overwhelmed, I sit in that position and practice breathing until my breathing and heart rate regulates and my mind is cleared, and then I self-validate until I am in control enough to see the problem clearly and either work through it or continue on with my day. Mindfulness, baby! Works for anger, shame, sensory meltdowns, etc. 💙

  • Hashtag

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  • Yeah, well, I don't need to be reading #donaldtrump as "pound Donald Trump", okay? I refuse. Both the reading and the pounding.